See Beyond the Obstacles

I don’t usually talk about my spiritual life publicly, but this week’s church sermon really got me thinking. We had a guest priest in church this past weekend, an Irish friend of our pastor. He mentioned the story of St. Bernadette, who heard the voice of Mary every day for 2 weeks. Mary asked Bernadette to visit the grotto day after day until it started to draw very large crowds. (Her hometown of Lourdes, France is now famous because of Bernadette), but by the 14th day the police had blocked off the grotto.

Bernadette had to go to the other side of the stream, climb up the terrain a bit and look down on the grotto from a distance, beyond all the obstacles, in order to see Mary in the grotto. Father Harris made the comparison to our lives, where we come to church daily or weekly to be with God and get beyond all the obstacles in our lives; work and family demands, technology, the hustle and bustle of life.

This concept of seeing our lives from above the obstacles is what life coaching has done for me and what I try to do for my clients. Don’t let the hustle and bustle of life, along with its demands and obstacles keep you from seeing what your life purpose is. Don’t let the inner obstacles of fear or doubt keep you from living the life that you are meant to live. Where is your focus? Is it on the distractions closest to you or the distant path yet traveled?

Take some time to envision the possible paths your life can take.
Make the time to evaluate the obstacles that are keeping you blocked.

Create a plan or strategy to bust through the obstacles now, before you waste more time submitting to your fears, doubts, and trials of life.

Make your life mean something powerful.
And finally, connect to whatever spirituality allows you to be one with yourself without judgment or criticism. Accept who you are and be the best you can be.

About Monica

I am a life and relationship coach with a specialty in relationship systems and change process. Trained and certified with the Coaches Training Institute and Center for Right Relationships. I work with individuals, couples, and small businesses via phone, Skype or in person. Please reach out for a free consultation by calling Monica at 203-209-5462 or email
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